Life outside can be really stressful. Work is frantic and exhausting, Commuting is a terrible thing to have to do. And running errands is the opposite of relaxing with off-work hours. Coming home should be like arriving in an oasis of calm. But, your house is disorganized & disheveled. The decor is dated & Feng shui sounds more like the leftover Chinese that's been sitting in the fridge for a week.